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最近我一直在看有關自證預言的影片，是和比馬龍效應(蝴蝶效應)相似，因果論、形上學。我們的信念如何塑造他人的行為。研究顯示，人與人之間溝通百分之七十是非言語的，其他人的思想和對我們的感受也可以塑造我們的行為。比馬龍效應是一種現象，就是當某人對另一個人有更高的，或好的信任感，相信對方會好，可以導致對方有更好的表現。這種效應還體現在管理者對下屬的期望，以及他們如何對待下屬，在很大程度上，也決定了下屬的表現和發展。另外的例子是老師對學生有好的期望信念⋯等等

Have you ever done a health check in a hospital? A few months ago, I went to the hospital for my health check, and it was also my first time doing a DNA test, also known as genetic testing. This test requires a sample of your blood, and the results come out two months later.

親愛的台灣，在最後一天一個人旅行的旅程到數幾小時結束。我只能說，感謝再感謝🙏
我們看別人照片都會羨慕別人過的比自己好，這些「好」都是自己的想像，同理的「壞」也是自己的想像。這趟旅程我對「文化」有新的理解，「文化」必須含蓋「包容心」紐約是個大熔爐，城市地鐵老舊，非常不方便，吃東西也沒台灣便宜方便，這裡之所以又美又酷，是因為「包容」各式人種和文化，因為這是國際村，所以這裡貧富差距很大，也非常非常競爭。

Time goes by so fast; I came back from Hong Kong last night, and it feels great after this trip. I wish I could travel more since I haven't traveled for years. Everything is so fresh and exciting.
My mom and I used to visit the jewelry trade show every September in Hong Kong. The last time we visited was three years ago. Everyone says Hong Kong has changed, and yes, it has changed. According to my observation, the most significant change in Hong Kong is the people, not the environment. Previously, Hong Kong had the worst reputation for service, but now it's different; people are friendlier. It might be because there are fewer travelers compared to years ago.

 I’m going to Hong Kong for a business trip tomorrow. I have not traveling for around three years. A few people have told me that Hong Kong has changed a lot after the pandemic. I hope it’s not as crowded as usual.

Recently, I have been reading an investment book that includes a few tips I really like. The author has his own philosophy of investment in a spiritual way. He suggests we make a wish and try to calculate self-cultivation of the mind. Most importantly, he emphasizes being motivated by altruism to give to charity. Altruistic spirituality is an essential motivation in investment.

Recently I have been joining a few English language exchange activities， I tried to keep myself busy， this might be the way to escape heartbreak and negative emotions. Also, I’ve been watching lots of stand-up comedic reels on YouTube， I’m crazy about it, especially I love watching Uncle Roger’s channel， I’m also listening to his podcast， comedic actor  Jimmy O Yang is really funny too. I’m enjoying they make those cultural jocks， make me laugh， I also write a comedic speech， it was a scenario that happened in a language exchange. English is my second language， and the best way to interpret properly is to think in English culture. By the way， I think Trevor Noah plays really well with the culture mimic. One of his shows on Netflix has talked about language accents and discrimination, he acted perfectly. There is more, the British rock star Russell Brand's stand-up is also brilliant. He is like a 1960’s hippie living in 2023. Always talking about some spiritual or consciousness philosophy. His contents its pretty mind-blowing, and also give me some inspiration about spiritual stuffed. I have joined an organization called Toastmasters, so I have to prepare a speech. I have written a few contents too……. Here is one of the speeches below…..

I love my big toes

最近看了愛無能的世代這本書，突然有些感慨，是說在這個追求獨特完美自我的年代，我們漸漸的在愛裡面失能。記得在20幾歲的時候，會閱讀一些工具書，例如窮爸爸富爸爸，二十歲決定女人的一生...等等成書籍，對於自身不管是外在或是內在，都想追求完美，很願意花錢去投資自己努力學習成為更好的人。

身邊也不乏許多跟我一樣的女性友人，也漸漸發現城市裡的女子，除了穩定工作外，每個人都喜歡追求品味生活，徹底的貫徹獨立自主和成功都會女子的形象，漸漸的，一群單身女子也就這樣一起渡過無數次的聚會。又或者是大家私下有些約會的對象，可是最終也都不了了之，或總不能夠建立起一段長久的關係，好像在追求自我成就的同時也在捨棄親密關係。前一陣子有部非常好看的日劇，叫做<東京女子圖鑑>看完這部日劇我感到五味雜成，裡面女主角綾根本就是現在都市女子的翻版，一個無止境追求所謂令人羨慕的幸福人生。

最近在網路上總看到狒狒騰騰的黑暗騎士報導，這部電影刻劃的反派角色是個極端的無政府主義者，美國的電影主軸基本上都是以復仇為基礎，當然韓國也有些經典的復仇系列電影如<old boy>,<親切的金子>...等等，日本電影<告白>皆為帶著深深仇恨為主的復仇系列電影，影片裡的暴力美學對大多數來說非常俱有解壓效果，當然在某些層面上也多少在無形間影響某些人的道德底線，表面上是如此，那麼真正的戰爭呢？

月圓的夜晚在英國郊區的古堡裡正準備着ㄧ場秘密的大型派對，受邀者皆是被古堡主人所挑選出來的貴賓(古堡主人是團謎)，有各行各業的人，有男有女，深紅色的邀請函貼在ㄧ個大大的黑色盒子上，盒子裡面放著昂貴的服裝及配件，全部都是複合受邀人的身材及個人風格，就如同是為了此人量身訂做的，邀請函上是燙金的文字，而邀請卡上寫著：各位貴賓，願你們能接受這份禮物陪我度過ㄧ個難忘的夜晚1.願意參與這場活動者只需在邀請函下方簽上名字即可2.不可以告訴任何人自己將參與這個晚會，透露者視同棄權3.有寵物者必須帶著自己的寵物參加這項活動4.有意願參與者必須穿戴黑盒子裡面的衣物和配件參加5.收到盒子的第3天後凌晨1點會有人到府拜訪，不願參加的人只需歸還邀請函和黑盒子即可，欲參與者跟拜訪的人ㄧ起前往古堡。至於受邀人唯ㄧ的共同點就是年齡，全部都是27歲的年輕男女，其餘還是團迷...

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